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Mizzkizz7

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Re: Friends, Best Friends
« Reply #15 on: October 27, 2018, 01:59:49 pm »
I don't have any friends, let alone best friends. Gave up on people a long time ago when I graduated high school. I'm uncomfortable around others now, and I never have anything in common with anyone. And maybe I sound like a jerk, but I really don't like anyone enough to want to be around them on purpose anyway. I've got my husband and my pets and that's all I need.
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Re: Friends, Best Friends
« Reply #16 on: October 28, 2018, 06:59:51 am »
I have a good friend that I would do anything for and they would do anything for me. Other than that it is just my immediate family.

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Re: Friends, Best Friends
« Reply #17 on: October 28, 2018, 07:56:50 am »
I don't have any best friends. I have a friend that I have known for over ten years, but I don't consider her my best friend. We kind of had an falling out and I for gave her, but we just aren't that close anymore.

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Re: Friends, Best Friends
« Reply #18 on: October 28, 2018, 08:47:51 am »
I really don't have any close friends. My husband is the only one that I keep close too.
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Re: Friends, Best Friends
« Reply #19 on: October 28, 2018, 11:03:43 am »
thank god no

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Re: Friends, Best Friends
« Reply #20 on: October 28, 2018, 03:19:28 pm »
Anyone who sys there a friend who expects anything besides friendship isn't a friend at all

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Re: Friends, Best Friends
« Reply #21 on: October 31, 2018, 08:43:45 pm »
Do you have a friend that expects you to answer every last one of their calls? She calls me her best friend but I don't feel the same. Clingy, maybe? :confused1:
 I have learned not to emotionally connect myself to anyone. I hate rejection and it hurts when the friendship ends. (for whatever reason).


No! That would be annoying! Lol And not part of a healthy friendship. They're putting too much pressure/responsibility on you to be available at the drop of a hat. There needs to be an ease and understanding in a friendship. :)

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Re: Friends, Best Friends
« Reply #22 on: October 31, 2018, 11:59:07 pm »
friend for forever

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Re: Friends, Best Friends
« Reply #23 on: November 04, 2018, 05:40:03 pm »
Do you have a friend that expects you to answer every last one of their calls? She calls me her best friend but I don't feel the same. Clingy, maybe? :confused1:
 I have learned not to emotionally connect myself to anyone. I hate rejection and it hurts when the friendship ends. (for whatever reason).


This is why you have caller ID.  Ignore the call.  You have to be able to show that type of person that you aren't at their beck and call.  Sometimes you have to be cruel to be nice.
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Re: Friends, Best Friends
« Reply #24 on: November 05, 2018, 05:35:17 am »
My baby sister who is my best friend is sometimes like that..if i dont answer her call or text because i may be doing something and i answer her back later,she pouts and wont answer back...i have to text her several times before she answers...
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Re: Friends, Best Friends
« Reply #25 on: November 05, 2018, 05:52:11 am »
Unfortunately, I've had to separate myself from almost everyone in my life for one reason or another so no, I don't have that problem.  The one friend I do talk to often is very respectful of my time and I am the same way for her.

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Re: Friends, Best Friends
« Reply #26 on: November 05, 2018, 05:52:56 am »
Maybe she's only being clingy because she believes you two are best friends- maybe it'd be a good idea to let her know in a nice way the feeling is not mutual?

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Re: Friends, Best Friends
« Reply #27 on: November 05, 2018, 11:24:25 am »
My hubby is my best friend and been that way for 38 years.

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Re: Friends, Best Friends
« Reply #28 on: November 06, 2018, 05:28:44 am »
I'm alone also, with the exception of my kids.  I text my best friend daily, she lives in another state, and my ex husband calls a lot, that's about it.  I've been ok with it but next year I'd like to socialize more- for balance.

I don't have any friends, let alone best friends. Gave up on people a long time ago when I graduated high school. I'm uncomfortable around others now, and I never have anything in common with anyone. And maybe I sound like a jerk, but I really don't like anyone enough to want to be around them on purpose anyway. I've got my husband and my pets and that's all I need.
I get ya!!!

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Re: Friends, Best Friends
« Reply #29 on: November 06, 2018, 05:29:35 am »
I agree.

Do you have a friend that expects you to answer every last one of their calls? She calls me her best friend but I don't feel the same. Clingy, maybe? :confused1:
 I have learned not to emotionally connect myself to anyone. I hate rejection and it hurts when the friendship ends. (for whatever reason).


This is why you have caller ID.  Ignore the call.  You have to be able to show that type of person that you aren't at their beck and call.  Sometimes you have to be cruel to be nice.

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