There's zero evidence of you possessing any tact...honestly.
While I may have been less than 'tactful' in this particular thread, the assumption of zero evidence of "any tact" would be a dishonest one.
This thread was posted in "Off Topic" and NOT in d&d.
True however, a contentious topic, (specifically, 'prayer'), was posted as "off topic" and this does not preclude dissent or discussion of it.
The OP is a long-time FC member and it's obvious she's going through a very difficult time. This member has quite often posted posts that have been very nice for her to share. When it's obvious someone is hurting and other FC members care about her & wish to help---for someone to be there "questioning/mocking" them has about as much tact as the Westboro members that show up and protest at funerals. Please be more considerate, I know you can be. Thanks!!
As you no doubt have determined by now, I do not consider 'prayer' to constitute "help" and delineated why I hold such a position. This does not preclude an awareness of a difficult situation, nor support for the OP getting useful help. "Tact" can often be a subjective term with fuzzy parameters encompassing other vague terms such as 'politeness' and what is 'tactless' or 'impolite' to one may not be to another's perceptions.