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debraleesparks

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Re: cheating women/men
« Reply #45 on: December 13, 2009, 09:15:59 pm »
 :sad1: That happed to me.. he's gone... and I don't need catfood for a LONG time !!!hahahahahah

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« Reply #46 on: December 14, 2009, 01:47:35 am »
I do not think I will ever have that problem, my husband's love of God, comes first, and then me. I don't think my husband would step out of faith and cheat. I trust my husband.

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« Reply #47 on: December 14, 2009, 02:55:46 am »
Been there. Left his sorry butt. Best thing to happen to me. I got the kids, whom I love dearly.
Once a cheater always a cheater.

       Annette

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« Reply #48 on: December 14, 2009, 10:46:13 am »
Have his clothes ready for him outside.. as he pulls up,.. he will see all his stuff burning up in flames. Probably beat his *bleep* too.

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« Reply #49 on: December 14, 2009, 12:00:00 pm »
All you can do is leave and never look back lesson learned and on to the next one in your life , However dont make this a wound in ur well being as a person cause that causes a person to become bitter because of one who treated them wrong and u cant function inside of another relationship ...no one wants a bitter ol person with bagage..move on and let karma takeover

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« Reply #50 on: December 14, 2009, 12:05:32 pm »
I do not agree with cheating at all!! It has happened to me and I chose to stay with him, but we have been together for a long time and have children to think about. I will say that if you choose to stay, it is a long healing process.

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« Reply #51 on: December 14, 2009, 12:28:52 pm »
CHEATING IS A NO NO

I don't believe in forgiveness for the cheating heart because the wounded heart doesn't not fully heal. It's a serious mistake that both parties need to learn and move on from. Whether the person whom cheated is truly sorry or the victim is co-dependent, both parties should move on. It's the healthiest way of all!

If you forgive, you will never forget. The hurt and memories of being betrayed by the closest person will never truly heal. You can never re-gain the full trust that once existed between your you and your partner. If you try, the process is another suffering of it's kind. Both parties are going to deal with the mis-trust and the relationship grows to hate. If you two cannot make it to get over the issue, the final break-up will do more damage in the long run.

If you move on, you will be sad and lonely for many months perhaps even years. However, the new beginning is worth more than anything that you can create with the person that once betrayed your love. People who choose to stay and validate their weakness with reasons will always remember. They will always feel that pain like it was yesterday that their love was betrayed for a worthless moment of joy.

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« Reply #52 on: December 14, 2009, 06:20:35 pm »
if someone cheats on me then fine i dont mind haha i will leave him alone

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« Reply #53 on: February 02, 2010, 06:51:36 am »
I WOULDING DO NOTHING CAUSE IT TO MANY FEMALES OUT HERE SO I MEAN I BE MAD BUT IT OWELL LIFE GO ON
AM A LAID BACK  GUY AND I LIKE TO GET PAID DO YALL LIKE MONEY LIKE ME?

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« Reply #54 on: February 02, 2010, 07:04:16 am »
I would be absolutely heart broken.   :(  Cheating is the most disrespectful thing you could possibly do to a person you are in a relationship with.  If you are unhappy, then end the relationship instead of hurting them.

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« Reply #55 on: February 03, 2010, 06:16:46 pm »
How old are you??!?!?!? ::)
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