Cheating.

[MsSoup79]

Why do people go cheat on their partner?

[autumnsparklemom]

Good question. I would love to know the answer to this. My father cheated on my mother. And he never gave a good reason why he done what he did.

[gaylasue]

We are going through this with my now ex-brother-in-law.  He cheated on my sister multiple times.  She finally divorced him after he got one of his clients (who went to school with his daughter!!) pregnant.  And to beat it all ~ he contested the divorce and has tried to drag it out as long as possible.  He's living with his girlfriend, her daughter and their new baby but still wants to control my sister's life!  I have faith that someone will take care of him eventually!  If not on this earth, then the Lord will take care of him when he has to face Jesus to account for his actions.

[kimber62372]

Yikes GaylaSue! That's some story but unfortunately it happens to the best of us. Now your sister can move on and try to forget him. She can attract so much better into her life, just tell her to focus on her for a while and good will come to her.

And to answer MsSoup's question, people do it because they don't love themselves and have low self esteem! It can be a sickness! Most people are unhappy with the other person but can't get out of the relationship or don't know how, so they result in cheating.

Do you think a plural marriage considers it cheating if the wife goes and plays with another man, while her husband has 5 wives? lol ... something to ponder about!

[BATISTAGIRL663]

i wish i had an answer for you but i do not --this is why i am divorced --he cheated alot and thought i did not know --idiot!! the sad part is that after our divorce he never had anything to do with the kids again now they are 19 and 20 and he wants back in their lives

[batmobile]

People are sick... What can I say?

[jenniferhoder]

I think overall people chewy because they are unhappy. It's very sad. I was cheated on for years and he is now my Rx but I am sure he will never change his habits.

[jenniferhoder]

Oops- my post should have said people cheat because they are unhappy! (Not chewy) and he's my EX not my Rx! Lol

[ErinCarter]

Very sad. Wish I knew, I think a lot of people just don't respect their marriages like they should

[Penwoir]

I agree, I don't understand why people cheat on their spouses. I don't understand why someone would bother to tie themselves into a lifelong marriage if they have no intention of staying faithful. Maybe they intended to be faithful at the beginning of the marriage but when things fell apart, they said goodbye to their vows aswell as their relationship. Marriage is not easy, it is one big compromise and should never be entered into lightly.

[tgreen20]

I'm not sure, if they want to cheat they should just remain single and sleep with who ever...

[vickysue]

Why men cheat, I have no idea. But they do. I will not put up with it nor have I put up with it. I also do not understand why the women will cheat  with them. One of my ex's fought me for over a year over nothing just because he knew it would upset me. I just wanted out.  He would follow me where ever I went. Tried to steal my car several times. Took me to court 3 times fighting it. I never even ask for a darn thing. He also was a drunk. Which I did not know when we got married as he rarely drink when we would go out. But once we were married he drank all of the time. I found out later that when he would drive back to his place he would get a bottle and get plastered. It was awful and then on top of everthing else when he would get drunk he would get mean and try to knock me around. God was good that I was never hurt to bad. 

[ladavia89]

Some people just shouldn't be in relationships because they won't be monogamous.

I know some people cheat because they're unhappy in the relationship but don't want to leave. Others cheat because they think they can have it all.

Some people are serial cheaters but get upset when they get cheated on.

[dancer139]

i think cheating is just wrong,,,,,,  if you can't work out your realationship then go your seperate ways,,,,  but don't cheat while still in it together

[KarenWitty]

They are crazy and do not take marriage serious  People are crazy sometimes