Single Mom

[jet2407]

Its difficult to be a Mom and Dad of 4 kids. Im 24/7 working and still not enough. What should I do?

[Storm61115]

get a sugar daddy and find him fast. there are certain guys who love kids and then there are some who dont want any part of a childs life. he's be around..just have to be somewhere that he is at. maybe go bowling, to a restaurant, bar, theater, mall, park..etc.

[vp44]

My advice would be to just keep doing what your doing because your kids need you. One day a man will come into your life when you least expect it. Plus as some get older they can start relieving some of the pressure. Good luck and keep up the hard work.     

[patti4me]

I agree; just be there for your kids cause they sure need you.  One day, if its meant to be, you will meet someone who will love you and your 4 kids.  We have a daughter who divorced almost 2 years ago and they have 2 kids together.  Its been hard for her but she moved back here to her home town and we help her with the kids (baby-sitting after school, etc) so that has made it a little easier for her.  She met someone a few months ago and they seem to be getting pretty serious.  He has a 12 year old daughter and the kids all get along well.  Our daughter's EX is a jerk and he plays mind games with his kids and does what he can to turn them against their mother and everybody else.  That's a constant source of frustration but we don't put him down to the kids cause two wrongs don't make a right.  Anyway, good luck to you and your kids.  Sounds like you are a strong enough woman to handle the situation until it improves.  And remember God never puts more on our shoulders than we are able to handle. 

[work778]

Keep your head up things will get better eventually.  Nothing lasts forever.  No matter how hard you are struggling the thing your children need most is love.  Become familiar with all the resources that may be available to you for help while you are in need right now.  If you are a member of a church seeking help through them may be helpful.  THey can help you with food, utility bills, clothing, childcare, medical bills, etc.  Sell your 4 childrens old clothing, toys etc through consignment, ebay or amazon.