i hurt so bad with back pain

[aggie49]

i went to the emergency room they said i got 4 disc that are busted that i need surgey but i am scared to death of them cut in to my back and spine don't know what i am gonna do any suggestion they put me on pain medicine and nerve pills but its barely touching the pain

[Pearlrain129]

If you are in so much pain that even painkillers can't control, as scared as you are, you should go through with the surgery. My late husband injured his back on the job and lived on painkillers for 18 years. It drove hm to his grave. He refused to do the surgery out of fear and eventually the pills that didnt help him, took is life. I can't speak for you, or even say that the same thing will happen t you. I'm simply saying from experience that medicine isn't always the answer. And though surgery is indeed a scary thing, and something you seriously should think about, it also could save you a lot of pain and misery in the future. I hope this'll help. I'm sorry for your pain and I'll pray that God heals your suffering. Take care.

[meg0694]

My husband is getting ready to have neck surgery next week and he can't wait. He has been in so much pain and just wants to feel better. Best of luck to you.

[Nancy5]

I know how scary surgery is, I've had a few, but not back surgery.  I do know two people who have back surgery and they are fine, no pain and so glad they did it.  If the pain meds are not helping, I would think surgery is your best choice.  Good luck.

[timandvicky1]

My sister had back surgery couple years ago, hardly any of the fusions took, her back was very unstable after the surgery she was limited to what she could do.  About 3 months ago, she went to Florida, they did an expermintal surgery one the one side, then a month later, did the same on the other side.  As of right now, the first surgery took, fusions look good, but once again the second surgery fusions are not doing nearly as good.  Now after a total of 3 back surgeries, she still has part of her back unstable.  If you decide to go through with the surgery, I know it is important to be sure to Not smoke cause it interfers healing, and do the walking when doctors tell you its okay, and if they give you supplements be sure to take them.  Otherwise, for pain relief right now, accupunture works great, maybe look into that, alot of insurances are covering that now.  Good Luck...Ps...Prayer always helps in making the right decisions!!

[sdecaro558]

From what I've heard, back surgery isn't always successful.  There are certain meditative techniques that will help with pain, though.

[DRMoser]

I'd go for the surgery.  My brother and sister have both had back surgery and don't regret it one bit!

[Delphyne]

I have Multiple Sclerosis and Trigeminal Neuralgia.  When I was first diagnosed, I was given pills to block nerve pain.  There are a few out there -- carbamazepine (Tegretol), Neurontin, etc.  These medications take some time to being working.  It took about two weeks for the Tegretol to begin dulling the pain for me.  For others it is quicker.  (I am no longer on those medications because I ended up having severe reactions to them.)

I also have a friend who has undergone back surgery.  She has degenerative disc disease.  The surgeries helped her some, but she still goes through a lot of pain.  You may be laid up for a while after the surgery.  You may find that your lifestyle will change a lot.  Or, you may have complete relief.  Considering your options, it is best to have the surgery.  After the surgery is done, then you can look into pain management options, and there are many. 

Please keep us posted.  Whether or not we have met you in person does not matter.  You are a person.  You are human.  I have never met you, but I care about you.  May you find comfort from your family and friends.  May your pain be less. 

[dcrotteau]

I have degenerative disk disease and cervical stenosis.  I had to quit my job a year ago because of the awful pain I was in.  I had a lot of physical therapy and other treatments, but nothing worked.  I had 2 consults with surgeons and they said they couldn't operate because for me the risk far outweighed any benefit.  For you, though, are you seeing someone that specializes in spinal surgery?  I would never see someone who wasn't a specialist.  Good Luck to You!!  Hopefully you find some relief.

[kqa]

Medicine is not going to cure the cause and until the cause is remedied you will suffer. Many times there are other options but if a doctor strongly advises surgery, it is most likely the only thing that can provide relief. I have been a nurse for nearly 40 years and have found this to be true many times, both on a personal level and on a professional basis.

[vickysue]

I too live with it everyday, but surgery is out of the quetion for me. Since they have to use metal staples to hold me together, It cannot be done. Just a few years i had another surgery (gallstones) and they also did exploratory, Had 6 staples in my stomach and in less then a week ther were all infected. Was tested and cannot have anykind of metal on or in my body.

[bigedshult]

Go get a second opinion fire chiropractic they are good discs that are little on aligning. Good chiropractor will take x-rays and tell you if he can help you are not always get sick or even with chiropractors. And doctors both. Don't take one word for it get to agree ° with each other! That is my opinion on the subject.

[Mojoshog]

How long has it bothered you? Did you recently due something to injure or aggravate it? Sometimes inflammation or bleeding near the nerve can cause pain that may lessen with time  or applying heat and cold to the area. There is still possibility though that scar tissue that could make it worse as it heals.
If the pain starts to subside you may try daily stretching and light, low impact exercises like swimming or walking.

[lannl]

Boy, I feel for you. I hurt my back moving and now have alot of pain. I am going to the chiropractor. I dont know if chiropractor would help you or not. Massage therapy is wonderful too. It helps with pain so much. I know how you feel about being scared of surgery. But, it does help many people. 

[tuyetmai]

My dad have the same problem.  He feel pain on his spine and they said he need surgery.  Still now even though the pain go away, but in change of weather he still feeling pain.  I think this pain relieve a little but will not go away.